I was once on a date, and broke out a deck of cards.... and asked her if she was up for a little "get to know you game" which is played exactly like war.... each person flips a card, the winner gets to ask the other a question..... any question.... if the cards flipped over as a tie, it meant that you had to flip 3 more cards (Like in the game war) and the person who had the highest of the third card flipped got to ask the other to do a dare....   It was a great way to break the ice for a first kiss, which it did, and the game... started out pretty innocently, but as the time went on, it got a little more revealing and 2 years later, I am still with her (and we still sometimes play that game).